After my trips to the gym and pool recently I started thinking about what is "sexy" and not. For me...it is more than a look. It is an attitude and a comfort with yourself and your body. If you aren't comfortable with yourself why would you expect others to dig you? Lorrie watches Dr. 90210 and I can't help but laugh and feel sorry for these folks at the same time.
The other night you have two sisters who had babies about six months ago and these gals are already fit and "shapely" where it counts. What was their story? They both now have saline personal flotation devices to the tune of about $14,000 a pair. What a waste of time and money. As a guy who has dated a natural 46 DD (think porn star) and a 30 AAA (think flat like a sidewalk) I gotta tell you...the chest or lack there of wasn't why I dug those gals. It was how they carried themselves and their brains. The gal who was huge...had back aches and the "girls" always got in the way of various things - grocery shopping for one. The gal who was small was always trying to be more "sexy". Trying to make up for "what she didn't have"; this insecurity is ultimately why I sent her packing.
Smart is sexy. Everything else is window dressing. When I'm 80 years old I won't be looking for my wife's whatever. I'll be looking for someone to talk at and talk back to me. I hope we are still chewing solid food and mobile on my own at that point too. I look at these hoochies on the show and think, 'What will that look like at 80?' Nasty.
You have to look in the mirror and like what you see under the skin.
Today's swim (IM Wednesday):
10 x 150
3 x Free, IM, Pull and one more IM
3 x 200 Odds IM, even Free pull (Br 3/5 by 50)
Tonight: Weights &
6 miles on the trails in the dark and cold